Hope Church is a part of The Christian and Missionary Alliance, otherwise known as the C&MA or The Alliance. The C&MA is an evangelical denomination full of believers who long to introduce the love of God to all nations.

Recently in my weekly emails, I have been focusing on the “one another” statements of scripture. These statements teach us how to experience true Christian community. Some of them also warn us against the things that can hinder Christian community. This week I want to focus on three “community killers” that might be hindering our growth as a church family.

Have you ever attempted something alone and then quickly realized that you desperately needed help? I was using a ladder once when a gust of wind blew it over, stranding me on the roof. I found myself desperately needing to “phone a friend” with no option other than to reach out for help. All too often we have a do-it-yourself (DIY) mindset when it comes to life. Unfortunately, DIY does not always work out very well. It has been well said that we forget that we need others until we need others!

One of the strangest “one another” statements in God’s Word is that we are told in multiple places to greet one another with a kiss. If you don’t believe me, check out some of these examples in scripture:

• Greet one another with a holy kiss. All the churches of Christ greet you. (Romans 16:16 ESV)

• All the brothers send you greetings. Greet one another with a holy kiss. (1 Corinthians 16:20 ESV)

• Greet one another with a holy kiss. (2 Corinthians 13:12 ESV)

• Greet one another with the kiss of love. Peace to all of you who are in Christ. (1 Peter 5:14 ESV)

At Hope Church we talk about community a lot! When we talk about community, we are talking about the type of life that God has designed for us to thrive in. When we talk about true community, we mean that we are committed to living out all of God’s instructions for His Church. The Biblical truth is that Christians don’t go to church; we are the Church. God’s people are the Church when we love and serve each other in the way that God has designed us. 

God has designed all of us to thrive in community, and at Hope Church we are deeply committed to it. The Biblical truth is that Christians don’t go to church; we are the Church. God’s people are the Church when we love and serve each other in the way that God has designed us. This is what we mean when we talk about community – we mean that we are committed to living out God’s instructions for His Church. We believe that we are better together and God designed us to be in authentic, burden-bearing fellowship with one another.

I am delighted to invite you to participate in one of the most important aspects of the health and future of our church, the appointing of Elders.

At Hope, we consider it a joy to be an Elder-led church. We depend upon a plurality of qualified and competent leaders to help us live out our calling in Brunswick and beyond. I believe that our Elder board is one of the greatest assets that we have as a church family.

There is a big difference between hearing the truth and living the truth. James warned us clearly when he wrote, “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like. But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing. (James 1:22-25 ESV) This is quite a convicting passage, but conviction needs to move us to action.

It is very tempting to forget that the Church is not, never has been, and never will be about our own entertainment. In almost every other area of our modern internet-equipped lives, we get to choose what we want to hear. Our smartphones, computers, radios, and televisions custom fit our entertainment and information to our personal preferences. If we do not like what we are hearing, we can simply change the channel.

I remember an awkward conversation that I had with a friend who mentioned that he thought I should preach a sermon on a specific topic/passage of scripture. He emphasized that it was a topic that he believed our church family really needed to hear. It was awkward for me because I had preached on that topic the week before. In the back of my mind I thought, “You are right! We do need to hear that message!” When the Apostle Paul wrote that we should avoid “neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some,” (Hebrews 10:25a ESV) I think that he understood the value of consistently meeting together as a church family.

One of the most intriguing classes that I took in seminary was also one of my favorites. The title of the class was Spiritual Preparation for Preaching. It was profound for me to think about all that ought to be done in preparation for preaching a sermon that goes beyond the nuts and bolts of writing a sermon. It is a spiritual process, and apart from God’s work we know that we can accomplish nothing.

These were the words of Martin Luther. He expected to hear from God and it led to a revolution in the way many of us read and understand God’s Word. While we may long for a burning bush or an audible word from heaven, I believe the primary way God speaks to us today is through His Word. An especially powerful way He does that is through receiving the preaching of God’s Word.

The other day on I-71, I drove past a person who was reading a newspaper, and they were in the driver’s seat of their car. We sure love to multi-task these days! When it comes to listening to the voice of God, especially during sermons, I am convinced that we need to be active and engaged listeners to really take in what God has for us. If we do not pay close attention to what we hear, like a distracted driver, we can put ourselves and others at risk.

That title will get your attention! I had a preaching prof say one time that he loved to listen to “bad sermons.” To be clear, he had devoted his life to helping people preach good sermons, so it was not a defense of bad sermons, but a reminder that even when we hear lousy sermons, we can learn powerful lessons from them.

Okay, so a sermon is usually about a half-hour…or 45 minutes…but what happens when I do not immediately feel like it hits me where I am at? One of my favorite things to hear from someone after I have preached a sermon is, “That was exactly what I needed to hear.” But let’s be honest, sometimes it does not feel that way. A sermon might not hit us where we are at.

Why did James have to remind us to be quick to listen and slow to speak? (James 1:19) I think it is because he made a powerful observation about human nature. If we are honest, most of us are more likely to be quick to speak instead of quick to listen.

While I was in seminary and college studying for ministry, I listened to hundreds of sermons – sermons in chapel, sermons in preaching classes, sermons at church. In that process you might think that I would have grown tired of sermons, but it had just the opposite effect. I love listening to and reading sermons. I can say comfortably that I have never heard a sermon that I did not learn something from, even if it was not exactly the “something” the preacher intended for me to learn. I had a mentor say to me once that learning to listen to sermons is one of the most important skills that you can develop in your life. He reminded me that God speaks to us in powerful ways through sermons.

Have you ever had something that was great in theory, but in practice it really did not work out? When I was a kid (in the 90’s) my parents bought a conversion van. We were so excited because this was not just any conversion van – it came equipped with a small tube television. The concept was awesome, and we imagined long road trips with endless entertainment. But in practice, especially on road trips, a TV signal would get picked up when we went through a city, only to have it go blurry after a few minutes. The problem was that the old analog TV did not have a large enough antenna. It never lived up to its potential because it never consistently received a signal. I am convinced that many of us today are like that TV, failing to reach our potential because our listening capability is too limited.

This summer, I will focus most of my weekly emails on a topic that seems like a lost art these days – the art of listening. To be more specific, we will focus on the art of listening to God.

In the 1970s, there was an ad campaign for Wonder Bread that promoted the spongy white (probably not too healthy) bread that many of us grew up with as being ideal for the wonder years between ages 1-12. While I would rather not debate the value of white bread (a classic PB&J on Wonder Bread is pretty great), I would like to celebrate how those wonder years can be among the most important times for spiritual development in our lives.